Dear Friend,

Let’s talk about one of the hardest truths in estate planning:
Love may bring a blended family together… but unclear planning can tear it apart.

You might be remarried.
You might have children from a prior relationship.
Your spouse might, too.
And you may love each other’s kids like your own.

But when something happens to you… and there’s money, property, and emotion involved…
Even the most peaceful families can fall into chaos.

We’ve seen it too many times at Bascom Law:
Stepchildren left out.
Adult children going to court against a stepparent.
Promises broken. Wills challenged. Relationships destroyed.
And it’s not because people are greedy.
It’s because someone failed to put a proper plan in place.

“Everything Will Just Work Out…”

No, it won’t.

Too many people believe that their spouse and children will “do the right thing” without clear legal instructions.

But here’s what really happens when there’s no comprehensive estate plan:

  • A stepparent inherits everything—and cuts the kids out.
  • Children from the first marriage get the house—and the surviving spouse is forced to move out.
  • A vague or outdated Will causes family infighting, resentment, and expensive legal battles.

It’s not about trust.
It’s about clarity.

Your family deserves more than assumptions. They deserve a plan.

What’s Fair Isn’t Always Equal—and That’s Okay

In a blended family, the idea of “equal” doesn’t always make sense.

You might want to leave more to your spouse to ensure they’re taken care of.
Or you might want to pass certain assets directly to your biological children.
Maybe you helped raise your stepchildren and want them treated the same as your own.

But if your wishes aren’t written down legally, none of it matters.

The State doesn’t know your family’s dynamics.
The courts don’t understand your values.
Only you do—and that’s why you need to document it.

The Power of a Thoughtful Estate Plan

At Bascom Law, we work with blended families all the time.
We understand the sensitive balance between honoring your marriage and protecting your children.
And we help you create a plan that reflects what you want—with tools like:

  • A legally valid Will that clearly spells out your wishes
  • A Revocable Living Trust to pass property privately and efficiently
  • A Durable Power of Attorney to manage finances if you’re incapacitated
  • An Advanced Directive for Health Care and HIPAA Authorization and Release to ensure the right people can make medical decisions
  • Beneficiary designations that align with your overall plan

It’s not one-size-fits-all.
It’s personal. Intentional. Tailored to your unique family.

No One Wants to Leave a Mess Behind

Imagine this:

You pass away.
Your spouse grieves—but knows they’ll be financially okay.
Your children grieve—but feel secure knowing they weren’t forgotten.
No one’s in court.
No one’s questioning your intentions.
No one’s left out, confused, or angry.

That’s what a good estate plan does.

It gives your family the peace of knowing that you thought of them. You planned for them. You protected them.

Let’s Talk Before There’s a Problem

Second marriages and blended families require more than a basic plan.
They require careful thinking, open communication, and legal expertise.

At Bascom Law, we’ll walk you through every option—so you can make informed decisions that reflect your love for everyone involved.

Because your family deserves more than promises.

They deserve a plan that works—no matter what.

Call Bascom Law today to schedule a consultation.
We’ll help you create a plan that honors your life, protects your loved ones, and prevents conflict before it starts.

Sincerely and Thanks,

Mike Bascom
Bascom Law, PC

770-285-5493