Dear Friend,

Last week, I had the pleasure of meeting an extraordinary woman in my office. She was in her mid-90s but carried herself with the vitality and enthusiasm of someone much younger. Her smile was radiant, her eyes sparkled with curiosity, and she was fully engaged in our conversation. Her energy was contagious, and I couldn’t resist asking, “What’s your secret?”

She laughed warmly and shared a few words of wisdom that I’d like to share with you today. She explained that staying youthful isn’t just about taking care of your body—it’s about cultivating the right mindset and habits. Here’s what she told me

“Never stop being curious,” she said. “Read, ask questions, and keep your mind active. Whether it’s a new hobby, exploring a new subject, or simply learning from those around you, staying curious helps you stay connected to the world.”

“Move your body every day,” she insisted. “Take a walk, stretch, or be like me and dance around the kitchen. This keeps me in a good mood and makes me feel strong.”

“Choose to see the good in life,” she advised. “Too many people walk around with a frown.  Keep a positive attitude and choose to focus on what’s good about your life.”

“Stay close to those you love,” she said with a smile. “Loneliness is horrible.  If you feel lonely, pick up the phone and call a friend or a family member. If you don’t have one of those, join a club.”

“Be happy and fully in the moment,” she said. “Don’t always go around focused on what you need to do next, or what may or may not happen next year.  Take time to look around and realize what a blessing it is to be alive and here right now.”

“When someone asks you to try something new, say yes,” she encouraged. “Try a new restaurant, say yes to a trip, or go with your friend to that cooking class she’s always asking about.  It’s fun to try new things.”

“Take care of yourself,” she emphasized. “Eat good foods,  get enough sleep, and listen to your body because you can’t take care of anyone else if you don’t take care of yourself.”

“Life isn’t always easy, but you have to keep going,” she said. “This is a tough one, but it’s important. Life can be sad and downright unfair. But you have to keep your focus on what’s important and keep going.”

“Laugh often,” she said. “I like to read the comics in the mornings.  It keeps me smiling and makes it easier to have a good day. Plus, I almost always find something funny to share with my daughter, and that means I get to pass on a laugh.”

This was one of the best visits I had with a client all year, but this remarkable woman wasn’t in my office just to share her wisdom. She was there because she understands the importance of taking responsibility—not just for her own life but for her family and her legacy. She wanted to ensure that, while she was determined to squeeze every bit of life out of her years, she also had a plan for what comes next.

She knows that eventually, even the most vibrant life will reach its final chapter. Her visit was about making sure her family is cared for, her wishes are honored, and her legacy is protected. It was a powerful reminder that taking care of yourself and your future isn’t just about you—it’s about the people you love.

If you’re inspired by this story, let me ask you: Are you taking responsibility for your future? Have you thought about how your choices today will impact the years ahead and the family you leave behind?

At Bascom Law, we’re here to help you create a plan that honors your life and legacy. Whether you’re looking to protect your assets, plan for long-term care, or make sure your family’s taken care of, we can guide you every step of the way.

Call us today at 770-285-5493 to schedule a consultation. Let’s work together to make sure your life is as full and meaningful as possible—and that your loved ones are taken care of when the time comes.

Here’s to living with vitality, purpose, and joy.

Sincerely and Thanks,

Mike

Mike Bascom

Bascom Law, PC

Estate Planning & Elder Law