Dear Friend,

Every day, people leave their homes with plans to return—but some don’t. It’s harsh to think about, but it’s reality. Life is unpredictable, and death doesn’t discriminate. It takes the very old and the very young, the healthy and the sick, the cautious and the carefree. And when it strikes, it doesn’t just leave behind grief—it can leave behind chaos, uncertainty, and unimaginable stress for those you love the most.

Let’s talk about something no one wants to consider: what happens to your family if you’re not here tomorrow? What happens if a car accident, a sudden illness, or an unexpected tragedy changes everything?

Here’s a story I’ve heard far too often. A young couple, John and Sarah, were in their early thirties with two small children. They were healthy, happy, and building their lives. But one rainy night, their car was struck by a truck on the way home from dinner. Neither survived. They had no estate plan and no guardians named for their children. What happened next was a nightmare.

Their children, ages three and five, were suddenly without parents. With no legal documentation, the state stepped in to decide their fate. Family members argued over who should take custody, leading to bitter disputes and court battles. John’s sister wanted to adopt the children, but Sarah’s parents insisted they’d be better guardians. Meanwhile, the children were placed in temporary foster care. On top of that, without proper financial planning, the couple’s assets were tied up in probate—a long, expensive process that drained money meant for their kids’ future. All of this could have been avoided.

What Happens Without an Estate Plan?

  • Your Family Loses Control: If you pass without an estate plan, the state decides who gets what—your money, your property, even your children. The government’s decision might be far from what you would have wanted.
  • Probate Drains Your Assets: Without an estate plan, your estate goes through probate—a process that can take months or even years. Legal fees, court costs, and administrative expenses can eat away at what you leave behind.
  • Your Children’s Future is Uncertain: If you have minor children, the court will decide who raises them. Even if you trust your family, they’ll have no legal authority to act on your behalf without proper documentation. Imagine your kids being raised by someone you wouldn’t have chosen.
  • Family Conflicts Erupt: Grief can bring out the worst in people. Without clear instructions, disputes over assets, guardianship, and decisions can tear families apart.

An Estate Plan is a Gift of Peace

Let’s imagine a different scenario. John and Sarah took the time to create an estate plan. They named Sarah’s parents as guardians for their children and set up a trust to ensure their kids would be financially secure. They appointed John’s sister as the executor of their estate, so someone they trusted would handle the details. They had life insurance to cover their children’s future needs, from education to daily living expenses. When tragedy struck, their family didn’t have to wonder what to do. Everything was clear, organized, and in writing. Their children were cared for, and the financial strain was eliminated.

That’s what an estate plan does. It gives you control over the uncontrollable. It’s not just a legal document—it’s a safety net, a roadmap, and a final act of love for your family.

Who Needs an Estate Plan?

  • Young Families: If you have children, your first priority should be naming guardians. Who will raise your kids if you’re not there? Don’t leave this decision to chance.
  • Homeowners: What happens to your home? Will your family be able to keep it, or will it be sold to cover debts?
  • Anyone With Assets: Whether you have a little or a lot, you need a plan to ensure your hard-earned money goes where you want it to.
  • Those Who Want to Avoid Family Drama: An estate plan eliminates ambiguity, so there’s no room for disputes.

Every Day Without a Plan is a Risk

We don’t like to think about death. It’s uncomfortable, even scary. But what’s scarier is leaving your family unprotected. Imagine your children’s faces as they’re shuffled between relatives, or your spouse trying to untangle a financial mess while grieving. Imagine your assets, everything you worked for, being eaten up by fees instead of benefiting your loved ones. These are the risks you take every day you delay.

The good news? Creating an estate plan is easier than you think. It’s not just for the wealthy, and it’s not something you can’t afford. In fact, you can’t afford not to do it.

Let’s work together to protect your family. Call my office at 770-285-5493 to schedule a consultation. We’ll discuss your needs, your concerns, and your goals, and I’ll help you create a plan that gives you and your loved ones peace of mind.

Don’t wait until it’s too late. Every day without an estate plan is a day you’re gambling with your family’s future. Take control today. Your family deserves it.

Sincerely and Thanks,

Mike

Mike Bascom

Bascom Law, PC

Estate Planning & Elder Law